Beat the Holiday Bulge

by shadiah on November 23, 2009

My favorite part about the holidays is getting to hang out with my family and socialize with old friends from my hometown. My second favorite? The food! The thousands of gatherings and celebrations associated with my holiday experience can present bountiful opportunities to over-indulge, under-exercise and end up feeling guilty and sluggish. Here are a few tips for sticking

  • Indulge freely and moderately. Let’s face it, there are just too many temptations and delicious foods around the holidays to pretend we won’t indulge, as we normally do. Instead of setting an unrealistic expectation that this year you will not have any of Aunt Maria’s famous pecan pie, give yourself the permission to have a slice. The intense feelings of guilt and defeat that come with eating “outside your diet” can often ironically promote compulsive eating. Instead, allow yourself to satisfy an urge guilt-free and notice how you’ll feel more emotionally and physically satisfied with just one slice. Maintaining positive thoughts around your eating experiences during the holidays will also make it more likely that you will stick to your normal, every day diet during the non-party days.
  • Make an exercise plan. Make it a point to stick to your fitness routine this winter by planning before the holidays start. “Actually write down your days off from work, your trips, and other events,” says Chuck Bartlett, who coaches more than 100 runners in the Seattle area. “Figure out when you’ll likely be able to run and when you definitely won’t be able to run.” Then you can pencil in workouts on days you know you’ll be around and schedule days off to coincide with travel days, family visits, and the like.
  • Pamper yourself. Staying emotionally fit is important for keeping a trim tummy. And pampering yourself is one fool-proof way to elevate your mental well being! Try taking time (and a little money) for things you normally put off or think of as “luxuries.” For example, meditate or take a class in relaxation and stretching techniques, like Tai Chi or Yoga. Get a massage – it can be beneficial for the mind and body. And give yourself the easiest luxury of all: rest! Take a nap mid-day or attempt to get an additional half hour of sleep at night than you normally would. The “small stuff” makes a difference!

While we are bound to experience some level of stress, holiday burnout or anxiety that may lead to overeating, make sure you’re paying attention to what your body, mind and soul need! Take proactive steps to fight the physical and emotional “bulge” before the anxiety and fatigue settle in.

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How to Romance Your Girl on a Budget

by shadiah on September 21, 2009

Co-written by Rob B. and Shadiah

So let me just throw a shout out there to all the Crazy Guys who get caught up in the moment with the right girl, and perhaps go just a little bit overboard with wanting to spoil/shower their loved one with expensive gifts and fantastic pleasures. No doubt you want to impress her, treat her and romance her to a world of riches and goodness. But let’s be honest. Unless you’re made from money, that type of treatment can only last so long…and you need to start getting creative. Quick.

Getting creative is an opportunity to shine and open up your world to your loved one. But even the most creative minds have difficulty crafting the ultimate romantic getaway on the cheap. This is where we are going to help out and hook you up with some crowd favorites. (And no worries…we totally expect you to steal and adopt these ideas.)

Gentlemen, pay close attention. Don’t just read the bold-faced bullet points. It’s all about the delivery and details.

Shadiah’s Crazy Girl Favorites:

  • Go on a Picnic – What better way to delight a Crazy Girl than to whisper sweet nothings into her ear, kiss her, and feed her grapes over a blanket on a sweet, summer day? Crazy Girls love the romance and spontaneity of a simple getaway to the local park or beach. And best of all for the money-conscious Crazy Guy, you could probably get away with throwing a very respectable picnic party for around $15 and one trip to the nearest Trader Joe’s or Whole Foods. (Crazy Girl tip: If at a park picnic, remember to find the most secluded spot – otherwise, keep the kisses and embraces at a PG rating!)

Continue reading our guest post on Kaneisha’s Dream Catcher!

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